Hentai connoisseur here, and I totally know that feeling. I teach a few courses at hentaihaven.org and don't get me wrong- I love my job! But I have an IQ of 158 and sometimes feel that my "resources" could be better allocated. Hentai fledglings ask me questions all day like "how do you know that traps aren't gay, doesn't the ♥♥♥♥ make it gay?" and I don't mind pouring us a cuppa and kindly answering "you can't say that when the ♥♥♥♥ is feminine you ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ ♥♥♥♥" but I'm and older man and it wears at me a little more than it used to.
Sometimes you just want to be wrong for once.

How dare you assume my gender, for your information you hetero-cis normative white male. I am a proud NON-BINARY, genderqueer, polygender, quadrasexual, attack helicopter and MY PRONOUNS ARE ZIM ZE ZER AND ZIR! Next time you feel like mis gendering me you can ♥♥♥♥ right off I AM OPPRESSED!

To be fair, you have to have a very high IQ to understand Hentai. The romance is extremely subtle, and without a solid grasp of tentacle physics most of the "action" will go over a typical viewer's head. There's also the nuanced idea of feminimity, which is deftly woven into the visuals - the japanese philosophy of censorship really puts emphasis on imagination. The fans understand this stuff; they have the intellectual capacity to truly appreciate the depths of these ideas, to realize that they're not just erotic - they say something deep about human sexuality. As a consequence people who dislike Hentai truly ARE idiots- of course they wouldn't appreciate, for instance, the eye opening nature of watching Yaoi as a straight male, which only a true intellectual could appreciate without any form of arousal.

I'm smirking right now just imagining one of those addlepated simpletons scratching their heads in confusion as a quintessential part of japanese culture unfolds itself on their computer screens. What fools... how I pity them. joy And yes by the way, I DO have a tentacle rape tattoo. And no, you cannot see it. It's for the ladies' eyes only- And even they have to demonstrate that they're within 5 IQ points of my own (preferably lower) beforehand.