I,m 60.....By age 21 I had been working 3 years in a full time job, moved out of home a month after leaving school at 17. ...your legally a man at age 18...my first part time job was at age 11 selling newspapers. a bit older i got work on weekends with my father painting houses. 15 i joined life saving and volunteered doing patrols on weekends...normal stuff for people my age. I really struggle to relate to whats going on these days.....why are you all so soft in the head??? 21 year old men shouldn't be congratulated on being a big boy...

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